Etiquette

some important info to ensure an awesome date

  • I accept cash, Bitcoin, USDT, and Ethereum.

    Please place the patronage in an unsealed, unmarked envelope on the bathroom counter at the beginning of our encounter. For public encounters, please use a greeting card, gift bag, or book.

    For crypto payment, please email me for a fresh receive address.

    Tips are always greatly appreciated.

    Patronage is for my time and companion only.

  • Screening is mandatory to ensure my safety. Info submitted will be used to make sure you do not have a criminal record, are of appropriate age, and the person in the ID is the one I will be meeting.

    Booking forms are set up to go straight to my encrypted mail and to be seen by only me. Once I verify that you are safe to see, your info will be deleted.

    I personally handle all communication, so please allow 24-48 hours for a response.

    Screening Requirements (choose at least two):

    • A government or work ID (you may blur sensitive details, but please leave your photo, name, and age visible). You can upload it to a cloud server and share the link with me.

    • Employment Verification: any of these would work - LinkedIn with more than 100 connections, company bio, company email, work badge, profiles from Bloomsberg, Forbes, etc…

    • 2-3 references from independent providers you’ve seen in the past 6 months, or P411 #.

    • Active social media profiles.

    • A 20% retainer will be requested to hedge against last-minute cancellations and no-shows to secure a date. The retainer counts towards the rate of our date.

    • For 6-hour dates or longer, a 30% retainer is required.

    • For Fly me to you dates, a 25-40% retainer is required.

    • It’s recommended that you send the retainer as soon as possible as I receive a lot of inquiries. If someone else requests the same date/time, I will reserve the slot for whoever sends the retainer first.

    The retainer is non-refundable if you cancel as I have reserved the time slot for you. If I need to cancel, the retainer will be promptly refunded.

    Accepted payment methods for the retainer:

    • Amazon, Uber e-gift card: You can purchase these online, or in-store. For online purchases, send the card to your email address. Once you have it, please email me the Gift redeem code.

    • CashApp: $onskaiinc (put fundraiser in the note section)

    • Bitcoin

    • Non-reloadable Vanilla gift card: can be purchased at any drugstore with cash. Please email photos of the front and back of the card.

    • The retainer can be sent to my listed email at novaaora at protonmail dot com, or unlisted email upon request.

    • I DO NOT accept Venmo or Paypal. Requests for these payment methods will not be accommodated.

  • Communication will be via email for discretion.

    You will find my emails brief to protect your privacy and mine. I prefer to get to know one another in person.

  • Dates 2 hours and longer: Allow time for drinks or lunch/dinner (room service would suffice if you have legitimate discretion concerns), shows, or museum…I know you will be a complete gentleman who goes above and beyond to ensure I feel comfortable.

    Overnights: are up to 16hrs. 7hr of uninterrupted sleep is required. Overnights usually start at 6 p.m. and end at 10 a.m., but I can work around your schedule.

    Weekend Getaways: To keep things balanced, I kindly ask for one hour of personal time a day for self-care, emails, and a little downtime.

  • I understand that life happens and things don’t always go as planned. Cancellation policies will be enforced at my discretion. If you must cancel, please respect my time and inform me well in advance.

    • No-shows without notice: A cancellation fee of 100% of the rate of our date applies to stay in good standing.

    • Cancellations are disruptive and can result in missed opportunities and income. As a courtesy and out of respect for my time, clients are expected to take initiative in resolving cancellations by promptly submitting the remaining balance of the booking. Thank you for understanding and respecting my time and the nature of my business.

    • Failure to pay the cancellation fee will result in being added to blacklists where other companions are alerted. Future requests to see me will be denied.

    • Clients who enquire about a session and don’t follow through most of the time don’t get a second chance.

  • I’ll gladly provide a reference if I have seen you at least 2 times within the past 6 months.

  • Due to the abusive nature of review sites and for my privacy, I have a no-review policy and wish our time spent together remains private.

    The only exception is privatedelights.

  • Booking forms are sent directly to my encrypted Protonmail and will only be viewed by me. I handle all screening/communication, so allow 24-48 hours for a reply.

    All info sent will be kept confidential and deleted once I verify that you are safe to see.

    My face is blurred in photos for my safety and our privacy. Discretion is important to me, and I respect yours as well. If we meet in public, I’m always subtle and blend in easily. To protect our privacy, I don’t share face photos or do phone/video calls before meeting.

  • My most up-to-date travel schedule will be posted on my website, so check back if you’d like to know when I will be back in your town!


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  • My preference leans toward longer (3+hr) unrushed dates where there’s sufficient time for me to feel comfortable around you at a relaxed pace. Efforts to make me feel safe and comfortable are greatly appreciated as it allows me to relax and be my most authentic self. For the first date, lunch or dinner is the most popular and never fails.

    For those with legitimate discretion concerns, room service will suffice.

  • My weaknesses are omakase and desserts. My preferred drink is sparkling water.

    I don’t drink alcohol but I don’t mind if you do.

  • Please read through the Etiquette section for some helpful tips to ensure a smooth experience.

    Please don’t be early if it’s an incall. New to this? You will find this client guide from tryst.link helpful.

  • Until I reach my saving goal, December 2023 is what I have in mind. After that, I might stay under the radar seeing only regulars, or exit entirely.

    ** Update: I’m currently semi-retired and selectively available. New suitors are welcome with a thoughtful introduction and a 3-hour minimum for first dates

  • If you have a specific outfit in mind, feel free to send a gift via Cash App, and I’ll be happy to bring your vision to life. Or, for a more personalized experience, let’s turn it into a shopping date!

  • I will dress appropriately for the venues and activities with your discretion in mind. My style is feminine and classy. I usually opt for dresses or business casual outfits.
    Makeup will be minimal.

  • Please allow 24–48 hours for a response, as I personally handle all communication. Before sending a follow-up, kindly check your spam folder.

    Due to the high volume of inquiries, my limited availability, and preference to keep my circle small, I prioritize thoughtful introductions and 3-hour (or longer) date requests.

    If you haven’t received a reply, it may be due to one of the following:

    • The inquiry was explicit or inappropriate.

    • The requested date duration is too short for a first meeting.

    • Insufficient or unverifiable screening information was provided.

    • A pattern of flakiness or noncommittal communication in previous outreach.

    I deeply value reliability, respect, and intentionality. Those who inquire but don’t follow through are typically not given a second chance.

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